Respect and etiquette in Sumba's villages

Many Sumbanese follow Marapu, the island's ancestral belief, often alongside Christianity. Traditional villages are living homes, and their stone tombs and high-roofed houses are sacred.

In a village

Greet people, sign the guestbook and leave a donation. Ask before entering a house or photographing anyone, and accept a no. Do not sit or climb on tombs. Dress modestly: shoulders and knees covered is a good rule.

Gifts and children

Children may ask for sweets or money. Sweets damage teeth where dentists are rare; if you want to help, give to a school or buy local products. Betel nut (sirih pinang) is a traditional gesture of respect when visiting elders; your driver can advise.

Buying ikat

Real hand-woven ikat with natural dyes can take months to make. Buy directly from weavers when you can, and expect to pay for that work.

Ceremonies

If you come across a funeral or ceremony, keep a respectful distance unless you are invited, and never use a drone without permission.